mina_v wrote:Sometimes when I read the advice given by narcs in this forum, I think they sound like caring people, for instance, they tell nons to stay away from their exnarcs. I don't understand why a narc would give such advice.
Why are the Narcs here so nice and caring?
Narcs are often nice and caring when it doesn't go against their interest.
For example, helping people on the forum removes my doubt about being smart and knowing my $#%^
I'm just being a smartass and it helps people because I am somewhat smart. You'd think of me differently if you tried to prove I'm not smart
But even then I would not insult you, I'm too afraid/paranoid to be aggresive towards people. You'll never persuade me of anything and I will go to great lengths to persuade you but I will never become aggressive, when the need arises I will become passive-aggressive and just leave.