ccetal wrote:Just wondering do you use silent treatment as a punishment on the discard or is it more that you simply want to write someone out of your life because you feel they have hurt you? Is it a simple way of removing your own pain, if you don`t have to think about them, deal with them or face up to any of the consequences of your actions?
The key difference being, are you intentionally hurting them or simply protecting yourself? Or is there some other reason?
addx wrote:In the case of passive-aggression - well, that's meant to teach you to respect the narcissistic inner child wishes.
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Anais wrote:addx wrote:In the case of passive-aggression - well, that's meant to teach you to respect the narcissistic inner child wishes.
addx, would you say that the N assumes we know what his wishes are and so thinks we are purposefully frustrating them? Do you think it occurs to the N that we don't have a clue what they want (due to lack of normal communication)? Thanks
The N. DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU.
It could be because
1) He is sick of you
2) Wants to avoid you
3) Wants to punish you
4) Since your an object, doesn't care about you at the moment.
5) Wants to control you and hopefully you'll jump and ask "how high" when contact resumes
6) Keep the power in his court.
7) Has a new source of supply to keep him occupied (which he does)
Simply doesn't care one way or another.
Use this time to separate from the N and starting living as if he is not a part of your life, because currently-he isn't.
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