It took a year plus of NC but i have now had my first taste of a flying monkey.
My sister called me out of the blue given the holiday season, i used to host boxing day gatherings and given all that has gone on i have stopped so she was checking to see if it was still on.
Turns out that a long time ago she had put away a gold coin for me as my GC sister got heirlooms from her family and the other kids got an inheritance from their grandfather, part of it was these coins. She had stored it in the family safety deposit box and through the years it had gone "missing". (Nmom has the keys).
Well now that i am NC with the NM and EF it bas magically reappeared (im of the mind that she just didnt want me to have it, man i could have used money to get on my feet after being booted out and into forced homelessness at 17 in a rural area). While i could care less about the value of it because i never knew my sister had even put it aside for me in the first place it seems a wry time foe it to magically reappear.
The plot thickens though. My sister called me offering to give it to my brother who loaned me some money in a bind 4-5 years ago, because i apparently "owe him money for my boat and he really wants to see my boat but i havent let him". I said that would be a great idea because i would like to see him get the money back and the coin was his grandfathers so i would be happy for him to have it, especially seeing as i never knew it was reserved for me in the first place.
Well my brother loaned me the money in 09 and saved my bacon as my business had just failed, i was set to go to court against a zany woman and i was looking for a job. I had gotten bonuses over the years and offered to pay him back in whole or in part multiple times and he always said he never really expected to see the money back and was very lassiez faire about getting a check, cash or electronic wire.
In 2012 i got a $15k bonus and bought the boat and again was offering to pay him back and received the same response.
So good old NM is obviously behind this bullcrap rumour, because my loan from my brother and my boat are in no way connected. Under no circumstances do i owe money to my brother "for my boat". Further ive offered to take him and his wife sailing a few times and he hasnt taken me up on it due to time and scheduling, in no way is he "hoping to see my boat but i have not let him".
I always knew that NM would be working behind the scenes to try to tarnish my character.. This is why i have them on information blackout. They can only do so much damage if they are operating on data over a year old. So i am not entirely surprised. My brothers loan to me also seems lkke a very fitting wedge issue for her to try to twist and to say im a prick for having a boat and spending money on it while my "poor poor brother" is patiently waiting for the loan to be repaid is pretty well the only game shes got.
So with gold at $1300 an ounce and the sentimental value of the coin my ingenious sister in giving him this long lost treasure she will write off the debt that he wasnt too concerned about being paid back for, eliminate the NMs only wedge issue and in the process will come out sailing with me and with my brother who she will drag aboard. NM and EF spend all their time with the GC sister so these siblings are in the "ignored" role and feel like outsiders.
My sister was quite shocked to hear the true story of the loan, the boat and the repayment offers. Shed knows NMs games as she is the oldest and was already in her mid teens when EF remarried and met NM. She isnt much for drama but i could tell from the inflection of her voice that she realized at that very moment that she had been played.
Damn narcissists.