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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby star2218 » Mon Nov 26, 2012 12:59 am

Insecure, vulnerable, naive, people-pleasing, that is my guess.
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby Angelhearted12 » Sun Jan 20, 2013 11:54 am

Codependents, hookers and the mother types
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby Sigurd » Sun Jan 20, 2013 12:11 pm

I'm guessing that everyone is writing what they are attracted to in this thread.
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby Angelhearted12 » Sun Jan 20, 2013 12:58 pm

Yeah, those are the types of Ns I attract
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby berndschizoid » Sun Jan 20, 2013 1:06 pm

I am just attracted to people who are like me.
And i don't find girls attractive i just like it when day behave in a way i do so I am reminded
how good I am.
reality is a mankind created delusion
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby PrimeTime » Tue Jan 22, 2013 3:39 pm

reflection wrote:The innocence would play an important role because in the beginning they would need a person to buy into the illusion that they present. To do that there has to be some gullibility or naivety.

I agree. He used to say, gesturing with his hands palms up as if they were balance scales:

"You're so smart, and you're so dumb." and the hands were level, then he'd repeat with emphasis:
"You're so smart, and you're SOOO DUUMB." and on the DUUMB, he lower that hand way down. :lol: By dumb, I thought at first that he meant too trusting in people generally. As time went by I began to think he was talking about himself and the cheating. But I wasn't all THAT naive. When his cologne disappeared and he was telling me not to wear perfumes, yeesh, how stupid did he think I was?

And if I used offensive language, he would reprimand me: "Why would someone with your intelligence and education talk like that?" He had an image that he wanted me to project, that he wanted to be with. And it was woman on a pedestal.
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby svenska500 » Thu Jan 24, 2013 8:37 am

Unfortunately I cannot respond to this topic because women are fuc.king annoying. Attraction? Thankfully I am not attracted to any of them.
Be extremely subtle, even to the point of formlessness. Be extremely mysterious, even to the point of soundlessness. Thereby you can be the director of the opponent's fate. - Sun Tzu
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby Sarahlea » Thu Jan 24, 2013 1:38 pm

Mommy issues?
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby svenska500 » Thu Jan 24, 2013 7:19 pm

Not at all. You?

Sarahlea wrote:Mommy issues?
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Re: What type of women are narcissists attracted to?

Postby babybowrain » Wed Jul 10, 2013 3:19 am

I've had my life messed around with by so many narcissits, you have no clue. Even when it was inappropriate and they were teachers. I find them scary but somewhat entertaining. I think I bring out the soul in them. At least they are generally beautiful looking and charming. And I like mothering them. If anyone wants to analyse me go ahead. I did however have a few narcissists try to ruin my life.
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