I just found this forum, and am hoping to be able to share my thoughts with other people on this board and shed some light on this subject.
Have been concerned about my two nieces and my brother..they either suffer from severe hypochondria or am afraid it may be a form of munchausen. My nieces are now adults , one is 26 and the other is 31, but they have been supposedly suffering from every disease in the book. As they live over an hour a way I do not see them often and they tend to be reclusive, even when I express the desire to visit,,I am not invited up.
My 26 year old neice, I believe is anorexic, was hospitalized many years ago,,according to my brother and sister in law ,it all stemmed from lyme disease, which is what they call her current condition..When seeing her on the few occasions I was lucky enough to visit,,she does not eat anything, she is very thin..does not work , actually both nieces are on public assistance which is very sad.
My older niece has already had a hysterectemy, and again every disease, you name it,,she has had it, hepetitis, bechets syndrome, lyme disease, now in the latest email was told she has celiac disease.
They both live at home and again, do not work or rarely go out.
It makes me so sad to think that those girls never had a chance,,I believe my brother and his wife never motivated them to try to overcome and although there were health issues, they indulged in all of this and that's where the munchausen comes in,,I feel they feed into it and almost enjoy it all in some sick way,, looking for sympathy and use it all as a kind of crutch to insulate themselves from the world.
I know this has been long winded, but have no one except my husband to share all this with as my family is small and parents are deceased .
Would love some feedback..I know there is no black and white regarding this ..but it does feel good to vent and possibly hear back from some of you..
Thanks