why am I forgotten...

why is it that I am the forgotten girl...the girl no one cares about, no one cares to feed or to buy clothes for...why was I born this way. I don't understand this. This has been a since birth thing for me...

Hi there. I was that girl too once. But then, I grew older. I got to start to make choices for myself. To do things differently.
Sometimes our start in this world isn't fair hun. But that is just the first chapter. There are Many more to come. As an Adult, you can begin to write your own future. You get to decide who you are, what you want and what you deserve.
So dream big, plan big. Make goals. And dont let the mud that has been put in your wings stay there. Spread those beautiful wings. Fly.
With a hug
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aww thank you!

Use how you feel to succeed in life! Once you get out there and bloom into who you are you won't care that no one is there to feed or cloth you because you can do it yourself. You will look back on old times and just smile to yourself. No longer are you forgotten!Don't use it to hold you back. Use it to grow yourself.

I want more advice.

It's not you, it's them. Since it's a "since birth" thing, it can't be anything about who you are or how you're relating. It's a dysfunctional family. Useful to observe, in order to see how you DON'T want to act in the same way. To know what to avoid. That's all, though.

I don't know much about you or your circumstances so I don't know if this is helpful in any way. But seems like you'll need to build yourself a new family, from people who you choose to be with. And who value you for who you are [just as you value them in the same way.] It's not easy. Worth trying, though, whenever you can get to that point.