I've been dealing with a lot of trauma and anxiety for the past few years and while it's cost me a lot of things, the one thing that kills me every day is that it cost me the best relationship I ever had. I was having so many problems and dealing with all these personal demons, long-story short we were both totally dedicated to each other but I dropped the ball and grew distant from her, started ignoring her and pushing her away etc..... not because I wanted to, but because I could barely handle getting out of bed most days, much less handle a relationship.
This was over two years ago and not one day goes by that I don't think about her, I miss her like crazy. This turned me into such an angry person, I've been so angry at the fact that I developed these mental health issues and they cost me the person that I loved with all my heart. It seems so unfair, I was a very different person before I started getting horrible anxiety and having all these issues.... I was the person she loved, I wanted to spend time with her, take her places and just live a normal life together. Then I was cursed with all these problems and I lost all of that.
Has anyone felt this angry about their condition? It's turned me into such a cold, bitter person.... I always lived my life right, tried to make good choices, helped others etc., and now I'm paying like the worst of criminals. Living with some of these mental disorders is literally like being in prison. I lost my love, I've lost my dreams, it's pretty hard to move on with life when you can barely leave the house without having an anxiety attack.
How do you cope with the anger?? I feel so angry at life, god, a higher being, or whoever put me through this path. If it was not for all my personal demons, I would be living my life the way I dreamed. I had the love of my life, I had so much ambition and so many goals literally planned out, I was a very gifted athlete.... now I can barely go to the damn grocery store without panicking and I spend my days wasting what should be a precious gift of life.