So I seem to be going back and forth with this. I don't know if I have SPD, OCD or StPD. Probably all of them.
I'm 17 and I only came across all of this PD's fairly recently, but I seem to have always displayed traits of OCD and intrusive thoughts as a child. I daydream a lot, I talk with myself often, and I excessively introspect about things that I do or think. I've gone from googling Odepius complexes to attachment disorders, Psychopathy, to the most stupid thoughts to search on the internet. I've struggled to find my identity pretty much all my adolescence, and the more I research these things the more they scare me. I don't even know where to start. Let me try:
When I was 12 years old I had my first and only panic attack after my cousin showed me a video about ghosts on the internet. The video was a fictional short, but at the time a lot of people claimed it was real. I should note that I was already very rational at 12 years old; certainly more than people my age.
Fast forward a couple of years later and my uncle, who had been living with me for a while, died. Interestingly enough shortly before that he had a psychotic attack, where he claimed my grandma (his mother) was hiding a note, and that aliens had broke into his room and tried to abduct/kill him. But anyway, after he died I was overwhelmed with grief. I prayed that night that he would somehow resuscitate, and I was sort-of ridiculously hoping for that. After he died I guess I didn't exactly process the whole thing, so I started researching obsessively for life after death. Eventually I found out Near-death experiences and the cult around it, I even bought the book and was inclined to believe the whole thing. I just had to get an explanation for it. Surely there most be something beyond life I thought. Eventually I just grew out of it and I don't believe in a deity of any kind.
I know this may seem like an average teenage struggle, but it just doesn't end there. As a child I was very sensitive and emotional, yet ever since I was 12 I've been noticing a gradual increase of apathy. Surely depression might be associated with it, and hopefully the possible OCD thing, but I just can't figure out myself. Add that to the identity struggle. I've been portraying a facade my whole life:: I just don't know who I am anymore, but I don't think I ever fully did. It's like I've lost all my values and morals as a child. I don't think I even have a coherent type of writing. Also, the fact that I never took interest in a romantic relationship or had a crush seems to be indicative of something abnormal. I know I'm not asexual, my libido is pretty normal for a teenager. I never talked much with girls in the first place (or guys) and I never had many friends either. I've always loved my caregivers (mom and grandmother), but I never have been attached to anyone else. I do still feel great empathy for the poor, and I always like to land a hand but that's about the only interest I have in helping people. The fact that I didn't have a father figure in my life certainly didn't help, either. It's just a ###$ up mess.
$#%^, now it really does look like an average teenage struggle. Sorry, I digress. I do really seem to fit some of the symptoms though. Here it goes then:
Inappropriate or constricted affect (the individual appears cold and aloof); To some extent. Like I said, I've been increasingly apathetic for the past few years.
Behavior or appearance that is odd, eccentric or peculiar; - Not really. I look pretty normal.
Poor rapport with others and a tendency to withdraw socially; - Yes.
Odd beliefs or magical thinking, influencing behavior and inconsistent with subcultural norms;
Suspiciousness or paranoid ideas; Not aside from those experiences I already detailed above.
Obsessive ruminations without inner resistance, often with dysmorphophobic, sexual or aggressive contents; - Yes. I figured this was due to the OCD though.
Unusual perceptual experiences including somatosensory (bodily) or other illusions, depersonalization or derealization; Not really.
Vague, circumstantial, metaphorical, over-elaborate or stereotyped thinking, manifested by odd speech or in other ways, without gross incoherence; Not sure what this means. I do think I have an abnormal thought process and views.
Occasional transient quasi-psychotic episodes with intense illusions, auditory or other hallucinations and delusion-like ideas, usually occurring without external provocation. No, but I have experienced occasions when I go to bed and I hear dragon-type screams in my head, mostly in a very silent environment. I think that's happened to me since I was a kid though. Another thing is sometimes I hear people who I have interacted that day in my head calling my name, but I can easily differentiate it from reality. I don't know to what extent this is abnormal or not.
I don't know how relevant this is, but I've also noticed that I have a a very abnormal and incoherent type of writing. Also, despite a lot of people telling me throughout my life how intelligent I am (specially as a child), I've always had a hard time with math, specially with logic related problems. I figured this could be indicative of the cognitive defects that's mentioned on the wiki page.
Sorry for the long post, but I just needed to get it off my chest. Is any of this ''normal''? Does this sound like StPD? Certainly OCD and a fantasy prone personality, right?
Thanks for reading.