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Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby Mavet » Sat Jun 02, 2012 5:28 pm

So, I'm primarily BPD, and this keeps me in relationships.

However...

If the relationship isn't intense on an emotional and sexual level, I tend to get really bored. Maybe the emotional ups and downs and all the drama isn't healthy, but at least it keeps things interesting. :/

Can anyone relate?
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Re: Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby lodi dodi » Sat Jun 02, 2012 7:10 pm

What if you had deep conversations and such? I don't get bored from those.

I was with a guy who didn't care for that so I died from boredom.
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Postby Mavet » Sat Jun 02, 2012 8:21 pm

I think part of the problem THIS time is that I've known this person for ages. The first night we spent together (actually before we had a relationship), we talked about anything I could think of which is a lot since my mind is all over the place.

I was amazed, like a little girl at a zoo. Now I'm like, bluh.
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Re: Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby lodi dodi » Sat Jun 02, 2012 8:38 pm

I think it's normal to get bored from relationships if you don't get stimulation out of it.

Drama sucks but if the peeps aren't making other efforts I can see how drama takes over.
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Re: Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby Mavet » Sat Jun 02, 2012 8:42 pm

Maybe I just need to change things up a bit? I don't know. I don't want to end up cheating on him (I did that with my last "serious" relationship and felt bad for a while) but I do want more.
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Re: Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby lodi dodi » Sat Jun 02, 2012 9:08 pm

Sure, maybe go somewhere, experience new stuff. :)
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Re: Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby Mavet » Sat Jun 02, 2012 10:21 pm

If I get the job I'm being interviewed for Tuesday, I'll have the money to. :)

Any suggestions? I live in a college town, but it's still sort of small. Ohio.
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Re: Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby lodi dodi » Sun Jun 03, 2012 5:13 am

Or you guys can develop new interests or activities together, like tennis or parties. Sorry, no suggestions I can think of for your area except stuff like hiking, sight seeing, etc.
Good luck on the job interview. :)
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Re: Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby Mavet » Sun Jun 03, 2012 4:06 pm

Thanks much. :)

I'm liking the Michael Bolton you've got there. :D
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Re: Do you ever get bored with relationships?

Postby lodi dodi » Sun Jun 03, 2012 4:16 pm

No problem! :D

Yea that pic is hilarious. :)
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