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Sex - is this weird...?

Postby Mavet » Sat Jun 02, 2012 5:46 am

Today was a weird day.

I haven't been interested in sex lately. However, today I wasn't really thinking anything sexual EXCEPT about seducing the other person and controlling their desire. I got off on it, as I have in the past (though more subtly).

Is that kind of thing normal sexual behavior for someone with a PD? Or am I just being strange?
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Re: Sex - is this weird...?

Postby lodi dodi » Sat Jun 02, 2012 6:16 am

You know this person?
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Postby Mavet » Sat Jun 02, 2012 5:03 pm

I do. I always at least vaguely know the person.
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Re: Sex - is this weird...?

Postby lodi dodi » Sat Jun 02, 2012 7:17 pm

The controlling part seems like part of p.disorder, but I can see how it could be some fantasy/fetish instead.
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Re: Sex - is this weird...?

Postby thisislabor » Sat Jun 02, 2012 7:59 pm

Mavet wrote:Today was a weird day.

I haven't been interested in sex lately. However, today I wasn't really thinking anything sexual EXCEPT about seducing the other person and controlling their desire. I got off on it, as I have in the past (though more subtly).

Is that kind of thing normal sexual behavior for someone with a PD? Or am I just being strange?


that kind of thing is completely normal behavior for any one, but you'll find the less of it you do the easier and more productive//happy your life gets.

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Re: Sex - is this weird...?

Postby orion13213 » Mon Jun 04, 2012 5:31 pm

Creating desire in the male subject, frustrating him, devaluing him, reacquiring him...without sexual drive in the manipulating HPD female...this is classic HPD behavior, via the Freud/Reich/Millon/Kernberg HPD model, which see.

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Creating desire in the male subject, frustrating him, devaluing him, reacquiring him...without sexual drive in the manipulating HPD female...this is classic HPD behavior, via the Freud/Reich/Millon/Kernberg HPD model, which see.
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