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Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby thisislabor » Sat Feb 11, 2012 2:22 pm

i'm not calling out for "justice" or for "blood" here, lol. i'm just trying to understand "non-disordered" behaviors is all.

ok.. that makes sense he is ASPD... ok, and thank you.

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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby BlackAndBlues » Mon Feb 13, 2012 9:48 pm

thisislabor wrote:i'm not calling out for "justice" or for "blood" here, lol. i'm just trying to understand "non-disordered" behaviors is all.

ok.. that makes sense he is ASPD... ok, and thank you.

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im pretty sure that i mentioned having ASPD in my first post... and yes i realize that i wouldnt be in this situation if i hadnt pulled out the headphones but the fact remains that, aside from interfering with my goal, (which, given that it leads to... i suppose some sort of rehabilitation-esque reward, is actually a pretty good one) she is manipulative to the point where it can hurt others and ruin friendships and stuff... so i think she does still need help...

and thanks for the advice Jas :D

also on a side note.... what does trigger mean... :oops:
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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby jasmin » Wed Feb 15, 2012 2:40 pm

A trigger is something that makes somebody anxious and hurt and it makes them react badly. It can be due to abuse, their disorder, whatever.
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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby crystal_richardson_ » Thu Feb 16, 2012 7:41 am

no, calling her out won't work.

just set her up. she's been setting you up all along and she's winning. she wants you out of the group. get rid of her.
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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby thisislabor » Thu Feb 16, 2012 11:02 am

Hi Crystal are you diagnosed HPD?

it doesn't sound like you have grasp of the disorder...

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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby crystal_richardson_ » Thu Feb 16, 2012 11:08 am

no, i have pd-nos with hpd traits though

you can't see her motives?
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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby thisislabor » Thu Feb 16, 2012 11:43 am

crystal_richardson_ wrote:no, i have pd-nos with hpd traits though

you can't see her motives?


i can't tell my own motives half the time, how would i be able to tell the motives of another through heresay alone?

btw, what is pd-nos?

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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby crystal_richardson_ » Thu Feb 16, 2012 12:11 pm

personality disorder non-specified.

what would you be trying to achieve if you were doing what she's doing to him? I've done what she's doing to him. she wants him OUT

I'm not assuming she's hpd. I'm going off her behaviour. who cares what she is. i'm giving advice based on her behaviour, not on the assumption she's hpd. she's probably not. not every manipulative b*tch is hpd..
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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby BlackAndBlues » Thu Feb 16, 2012 9:11 pm

crystal... im aware that she wants me out... but you see the situation isnt that simple... because everyone in the group has known her longer than i have... if i set her up, which would be incredibly easy, then the group would realize what had happened and then they would be forever out of my reach... if, however, i were to get everyone to realize how she is messed up, all the stuff she has done wont seem as sincere as it once had and everyone will stop listening to her... if the group members werent already suspicious of me (even though, ironically, their suspicions are for something im innocent of) this would be a very simple situation and i wouldnt be asking about it...
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Re: Calling out a Histrionic in my Life Part 2

Postby crystal_richardson_ » Thu Feb 16, 2012 9:16 pm

your friends are too young to accept or understand such an accusation.. most people I know haven't even heard of pds.. I don't think it's going to work but it's worth a shot I suppose.
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