Before all the nons commiserate with you.....
Do Histrionics usually get intense in the beginning of the relationship sexually and then get bored real quickly and the sex just dies off after a few months?
Not to generalize.........but yes. Pretty much. We aren't having sex with you.......we are having sex AT you. Think of it like a stage show, you're participating....but really, you're the audience.
I never had sexual issues with other women
Well, then don't beat yourself up about it.
I've never not had sex issues with other women.
On the first date, she was holding my hand
Yup. Love at first sight.........don't take it personally, it was an act. Or if you'd like, it was authentic...but its authenticity is not a lasting one. And if it is, it comes from a dark sad place......(like trying to woo some unloving creature such as ourselves)
She made me think I was really special
Yes, that's usually how we do it.
If people ever learned they could feel special without us........(by making themselves feel special) our act wouldn't work so good.
She was in two open relationships that she ended after we became exclusive
I can see, you may be a bit naive. Perhaps she's a romantic.......i mean, there's always a chance.
The lengthy ones were with emotionally unavailable men she felt she had to "catch".
I prefered emotionally unavailable women.........but an emotionally unavailable man will do, if he's cute enough.
I found out she has a very, very lengthy, "guys I have dated" list and she still keeps some of them as friends on facebook.
Sorry the quote thing seems to be messing up. Hope this is spaced correctly......
Yeah.....we generally use people to make ourselves feel good. We do this, cause we feel unattractive and unwanted.Think "emotional vampire" and the rest should make sense.....
No sense getting rid of all our victims......never know when you'll want a snack.
never know when you'll want a snack
Always. We're always hungry.