I was friends with this girl for almost 8 years. We were actually BEST friends. We lived pretty far apart so having to interact with each other in a social setting was few and far between. We mostly talked via phone, and IM (daily). I noticed how there was always some drama going on with her, and someone else in her life. I just gave my advice, and she seemed to ignore it and then continue to complain. This was something that happened ALL the time. There was always someone who was jealous of her. ALWAYS. Every guy wanted her, every girl wanted to be here, everyone always f*@ked her over. She always had money issues. She'd always ask me "for a loan" and I gave into small amounts 1 or 2 times. NEVER paid me back. EVER. As the years went by we eneded up actually living in the same city. We tried to be roommates, but she had a SERIOUS cocaine problem, alcohol problem, and kelpto problem. I was the victim in several of her thefts, and she just denied it. Even though I caught her with the items. She would just say "Oh shut up. I can borrow it." and act like it was no big deal. There was a big enough blow up after the roommate thing that I called off the friendship for awhile. 2 years actually. After all that time of NC I received an email with an explanation (re: NOT apology) for her actions. Saying she was having trouble with her bf etc etc. I, stupidly, forgave her, and let her back in my life. After she was fired from her job for stealing thousands of dollars from the company (not her fault again supposedly. The account was out to get her cause she was fat and jealous) her boyfriend broke up with her and kicked her out of his house. She ended up having to move back home with her Mom. In a year time she sustained 2 DWI's, a bigger drug problem, and a LOT more drama. I myself had started a life, and had really settled down. I was getting ready to get married. I had no time to deal with her, and she seemed to really be complimentary of what was going on for me despite how destitute her life was. In the months leading up to my wedding she would come to visit me and "help me with wedding stuff" (she didn't) what she did do is take advantage of me by saying that's what she was doing for a free ticket out to visit. She slept with several of my husbands friends, and ended up stealing some make up from me, a bottle of prescription pills, and some other items. (Again, she denied all this EXCEPT when my husband called her out on it. Then it was "an accident") She would flounce around in TINY shorts, and tight shirts with no bra. She would steal my perfume and wear it, and we even found out she had a cheap knock off replica of my engagement ring in her suitcase. CREEPY!
Fast forward to the wedding. She made a HUGE drama case. She tried to pick fights with my bridesmaids. She told people she was my Maid of Honor (WTF?!) She slept with my photographer, she slept with the caretaker of the venue, and she stole several candles and bottles of wine from the resorts gift shop which my husband and I had to pay for. She even had the audacity to ask my father for a $2k "loan". (she denied this and said my father was stupid and delusional!!!)
Since all this I immediately cut off ALL contact. My life was SO much better.
Then after 3 months she sends me an email saying that she had found the gift she got me for my wedding for sale on a DIY site. She said that she had made it out of priceless family heirlooms from her great grandma, and she as going to call the police and say I stole it, if I didn't give it back to her. I said I'd be willing to return the pieces that were GG's and that's it. She asked me to come to her place of work (she lied about where she was working.) to give her the stuff. I said "No. I do not feel safe in doing so, nor am I going to waste my time or gas to convenience you."
I guess I just wonder why she won't just GO AWAY?! Get the hint that I'm done. She didn't even apologize for her actions at my wedding. Just acted like she was the innocent victim, and everyone else was a complete asshole to her. Her delusion is so palpable I could choke.