Mako7 wrote:I have come away feeling pretty depressed...being played for a chump is only a part of the bad feeling. Maybe I'm more sensitive than some (maybe its that empathy/sensitivity that makes us a better "victim" to the HPD)
Mako7 wrote:it is a well Known psych phenomena that PD's will be attracted to people that have a PD that is the opposite off their particular problem
Mako7 wrote:this is known in psych circles as "The Dance"....It's wonderful at first of course but mainly doomed to fail
You'll read from many here that relate. I dont think your nec 'more sensitive'. It would appear that these types sense people who are empathetic and caring and it damn well HURTS to realise that these traits in us have been used and abused.
Mako7 wrote:Part of the problem is lack of closure....cos it's very diificult to call them out on this BS ...and if you do manage to I imagine they won't be tuned into you anyway.....
Mako7 wrote:Guess the best way is to just suck it up and learn not to wear your heart on your sleeve