I'm gonna hire two hot ass strippers.

LMFAO. I've thought about hiring these two hot ass strippers that I know and have them over to my new house and call my ex HPD and tell her I found something of hers and she needs to come get it. Then watch the look on her face when I open the door and she see's these two women there. Total revenge. I will get even and mess with her constantly until she cant take it no more just like she has done to me. Actually heres a better one. I'll put a pair of womens panties in my back seat of my car and stop by her house and talk to her. She always looks in my car and I will make it so she can see these in the back. lmao. I just wanna make her feel the pain and anxiety that I have felt for so long. Maybe in a few days I wont be so upset but this stuff has crossed my mind. Has anyone actually done this, and if so what happened ?

She'll know that the fact you bothered to show her means you still care. She might pretend to be sorry for how much she's hurt you and go back into the seductress act to win you back and if that doesn't work she'll play all the other crazy roles like stalker, screamer, bother your friends, and everything else to get you to notice her.

On the other hand, if you don't want to deal with Ms. Drama Queen anymore you have to prove that you don't care at all, either love or hate. Just indifference.

Don't fool yourself into thinking you can actually hurt her. She has more pain every day of her life than you can possibly imagine and she won't even notice a little extra from you.

Ah, revenge. I think the panties in the back seat is more subtle and cleverer, it'll just get into the back of her mind and eat at her... although who doesn't like hanging out with strippers on the odd occasion? ;) Although you can't let her realise what you're up to - if you're planning stuff like this then you're thinking about her and that means she still has you 'hooked'. And if she knows that, she's 'won'. The ultimate revenge is just to move on completely. Panties in the back seat? Try it being your new girlfriend in the front seat when you go to drop off some knicknack. Someone who will care for you as you do for her, someone who will put as much into the relationship as you do, so that you're *both* happier and better off for being together. That's what it means to really win.

Do you want to talk about what's happened? Ranting might not be productive in and of itself but I know it helps me clear my system out at times like these. From your other post that she's been playing the same old game, push you away so she can reel you in again. The problem is that once you're away, as you start healing and getting stronger, you start to think maybe you can make it work. You forget the insanity, to an extent, because it's so twisted and nonsensical that it won't quite fit properly in your head. At the same time she's turned to full seduction mode and is once again posing as the most perfect woman you could imagine.

As MyWave so well put it in the other thread, you *can't* beat yourself up over falling for her game again. She's a natural predator, evolved to prey on guys like us. Manipulation is her game. Hell, I'm in the same boat at the moment, except it was her walking out on me and then begging to come home. By the third time my best mate gave me a sarcastic look and said "what, is it that day of the week again?" Things were starting to look perfect and now she's creating emotional drama again... what's it going to take for me to shake off my stupid compulsion to 'rescue' her from herself?

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sfguy75x wrote:Don't fool yourself into thinking you can actually hurt her. She has more pain every day of her life than you can possibly imagine and she won't even notice a little extra from you.

Actually, be wary of this one. When she gets into an "I want to hurt you" mood and picks an argument, you really CAN hurt her. The problem is that this is a game of "heads I win, tails you lose". If she hurts you, she wins. If you fight back, and you hurt her, then she's the victim and you're the bad guy and this will make you feel horrible, so you're hurting, so she wins. She may even throw the fight, so to speak, to force this outcome. It's like playing soccer against an Italian ethnic team (apologies to any Italians here but you know it's true :P ) - they'll push and push but the moment they get a shove back they're flat on their back pretending to be injured and crying for the ref. Hell, sometimes even if she hurts you, she will then play the "I'm in an agony of guilt because I hurt you so badly" and you'll hurt more because you can see how much pain she's in... she's won yet again. She's like the relationship equivalent of a suicide bomber; any pain she causes herself or innocent third parties is blamed on you and thus is a win for her.

TatteredKnight wrote:Edit:

sfguy75x wrote:Don't fool yourself into thinking you can actually hurt her. She has more pain every day of her life than you can possibly imagine and she won't even notice a little extra from you.

Actually, be wary of this one.

Wary, yes I suppose I can agree with that. What I said is true but subtle. NPDs and HPDs are in pain every day of their lives but they are kind of numb to it. You can make her think she feels pain for a little while but it's not the same as when a normal person feels pain, because in her case all she's doing is becoming temporarily aware before pushing it back down where she doesn't notice it anymore. Remember she doesn't care about you and won't be jealous in the way you think, she'll only be irritated that she lost a trophy from her collection.

My main point is that all HPDs and NPDs are really deserving more of pity than punishment, you simply can't teach them a lesson they will remember for more than 5 minutes, and the best thing to do is stay the hell away and let them be somebody else's problem.

Sledge wrote:LMFAO. I've thought about hiring these two hot ass strippers that I know and have them over to my new house and call my ex HPD and tell her I found something of hers and she needs to come get it. Then watch the look on her face when I open the door and she see's these two women there. Total revenge. I will get even and mess with her constantly until she cant take it no more just like she has done to me. Actually heres a better one. I'll put a pair of womens panties in my back seat of my car and stop by her house and talk to her. She always looks in my car and I will make it so she can see these in the back. lmao. I just wanna make her feel the pain and anxiety that I have felt for so long. Maybe in a few days I wont be so upset but this stuff has crossed my mind. Has anyone actually done this, and if so what happened ?

Hahaahaha. Ya opened the door so I'll say howdy... There's nothin wrong withgetting revenge on people who get off on the pain and wreckage they create.

I have, over the drawn out "get my claws back in him" phase gotten some cool payback on my hpd ex...



Call the gal "meg"... a long time close friend and occaisional f-buddy. And imaginary "rival" my ex was psycho jealou.s about. Welll the hpd happened to call while 'meg' and I were... in bed makin boink boink....but in the act of shovin the phone in a drawer I noticed the I.d.... My thumb "accidently" hit the camera button. Lmfao. After getting the o.k. from Meg (she was too busy to notice @ the time) I replied to the ex's call. By sending the pic with a note: "I was busy when you called. Meg said hi, but it kinda sounded like mommmph hmmph" rofl. (The ex hpd was lukewarm in bed and refused to do oral... ) muahahaha.

What happened? The bitch went nuts. Trying to guilt trip me about "being so mean about rubbing it in".. etc. Ignore that crap guys. They're not "hurt" they're upset because we're not miserable.

Another was an actual accident that went uncorrected when I saw the phone... in my truck... (big rig). The suspension for the cab.. and seats are run by airbage... lots of movement and it's very squeekie... I was in Colorado (where Meg's stationed) and we broke in the truck... And.... did u know that bluetooth headphones have a 1button callback feature? And sensitive microphones?... well.... bouncy truck plus accidental sitting on the bluetooth caused a redial to the ex-hpd... who got to listen to a noisy squeek squeek.. and other sounds...

What happened? Lmao she heard but I refused to let her address the topic... But I DID tell my co-fiancees

Sledge wrote:LMFAO. I've thought about hiring these two hot ass strippers that I know and have them over to my new house and call my ex HPD and tell her I found something of hers and she needs to come get it. Then watch the look on her face when I open the door and she see's these two women there. Total revenge. I will get even and mess with her constantly until she cant take it no more just like she has done to me. Actually heres a better one. I'll put a pair of womens panties in my back seat of my car and stop by her house and talk to her. She always looks in my car and I will make it so she can see these in the back. lmao. I just wanna make her feel the pain and anxiety that I have felt for so long. Maybe in a few days I wont be so upset but this stuff has crossed my mind. Has anyone actually done this, and if so what happened ?

Hahaahaha. Ya opened the door so I'll say howdy... There's nothin wrong withgetting revenge on people who get off on the pain and wreckage they create.

I have, over the drawn out "get my claws back in him" phase gotten some cool payback on my hpd ex...



Call the gal "meg"... a long time close friend and occaisional f-buddy. And imaginary "rival" my ex was psycho jealou.s about. Welll the hpd happened to call while 'meg' and I were... in bed makin boink boink....but in the act of shovin the phone in a drawer I noticed the I.d.... My thumb "accidently" hit the camera button. Lmfao. After getting the o.k. from Meg (she was too busy to notice @ the time) I replied to the ex's call. By sending the pic with a note: "I was busy when you called. Meg said hi, but it kinda sounded like mommmph hmmph" rofl. (The ex hpd was lukewarm in bed and refused to do oral... ) muahahaha.

What happened? The bitch went nuts. Trying to guilt trip me about "being so mean about rubbing it in".. etc. Ignore that crap guys. They're not "hurt" they're upset because we're not miserable.

Another was an actual accident that went uncorrected when I saw the phone... in my truck... (big rig). The suspension for the cab.. and seats are run by airbage... lots of movement and it's very squeekie... I was in Colorado (where Meg's stationed) and we broke in the truck... And.... did u know that bluetooth headphones have a 1button callback feature? And sensitive microphones?... well.... bouncy truck plus accidental sitting on the bluetooth caused a redial to the ex-hpd... who got to listen to a noisy squeek squeek.. and other sounds...

What happened? Lmao she heard but I refused to let her address the topic... But I DID tell mthe story to my 2 co-fiancees. (She was "engaged" to me and 2 others plus was f*cking 4 other guys)... the other fiancees all began trying the same prank.. the hpd eventually had 2 change her number. But quickly began calling us all again to keep the game going.

The next one will raise some hackles so I'll preface it with this: "I don't give a rat's @ss what objections to call girls anybody has. No moralizing please"

I had a c.d. about to mature and pay out. The plan had originally been to use the $ to pay for the wedding, and honeymoon in Hawaii. Instead, I spent the time and thousands of dollars in a decent hotel across the border from Tijuana. (San diego doofs). A different high end call girl every night, and each took a pic of me flipping off the camera.. (a tip: hookers don't like to pose for pics. Don't ask). Strip clubs and. Clubs in both san diego and mexico... with drunken snapshots of. The good times I was havin. The pix? I sent them to her.. and have many in my profiles on myspace and facebook... as well, I explained what they were, and faxed the cancellation notice on the cruise and hotel reservations to her work. ,
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The list of sick head games and f-up heartless betrayals this girl pulled is a long and very painful list. Nothi I did was anywhere near as evil as this woman. The glow does fade, and mental ba
Ggage returns, but damn.... she keeps the memory alive by trying to play guilt games.