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Girls who are mean to boys they like- HPD?

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Girls who are mean to boys they like- HPD?

Postby SuperMoose » Mon May 02, 2016 5:46 pm

This is more of a child's psychology thing since it's something more common in children. I heard of this phenomenon and actually experienced it myself in middle school. There would be this girl who always acted mean toward me in particular, but was sometimes understanding and caring in unexpected circumstances, like one time I insulted her so she pushed me when I wasn't looking and I fell so I had to go to the nurse. Later she also showed up at the nurse. Another girl who was kind of mean to me knew I liked her because I often grabbed her breasts from behind but she didn't tell me she was interested until a few years later.

So when girls do this strange thing where they're mean to boys they like, is it testing, or is it for attention, like an HPD trait?
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Postby data-mirror » Sun Sep 11, 2016 8:29 pm

I don't think it's a trait of any personality disorder. I definitely think when girls/boys are mean to boys/girls/etc they like it is to get their attention and some kind of strange flirting.If they were interested too, and picked it up, they could be mean back without directly acknowledging any luveyduveyness. But simply wanting attention isn't an HPD trait. That's just human. I remember wanting to do things like that.
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