ridingthewtfbus wrote:Whether she's HPD or not, people won't always do or say exactly what you think they should, it's unreasonable to expect it, and doing so only guarantees that you will be disappointed. Also, PwPD and NON's alike are capable of lying.....
Agree.
Also it's likely common enough that NONs and PwPDs reminisce at times about their exes. Sometimes people reach out to an ex (keeping in mind electronic forms of communication make it very easy to do so on impulse), and then... regret doing so.
ridingthewtfbus wrote:And if you're absolutely sure she's being sarcastic, you need to ask yourself why do you care? ...
Jammo,
To add to this, and HPD aside, if you feel she is exhibiting poor character by lying (or being sarcastic, etc) it's a good a reminder why you are better off that the relationship ended.
Understood though that what really went wrong here is that you were doing better, and this event triggered those old reactions and feelings.