Foolforyou wrote:Thankyou, I will check it out
He doesn't have any self harm traits or anything like that.
What he does do is buy his ex partners houses. I find this very odd. On one occasion where he was ending the relationship for the millionth time he offered to buy me a house. I said "er no thanks, I've got a house"
He lies an awful lot too - he lies when the truth would do. And I think sometimes he genuinely believes his own lies
He has lots of good qualities too or I wouldn't want to be with him. He's very successful professionally but I have heard him speak about his elder more successful brothers and he said he feels intimidated by them.
He's quite complicated and hard to understand . We don't seem to be able to live either with or without each other
Sounds like a Cerebral Narcissist. You might want to do some research on their relationship with women.
Here is Vaknin's take.
http://samvak.tripod.com/6.html