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Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby Shattered_Crystals » Thu Jan 14, 2010 1:06 am

Someone said they would beat me till I pass, out and break all my fingers.

The day that was said to me, I went to the the office at school, informed them about the threats, I told the cop.

I told them about my 2 witnesses, my 2 witnesses, said it never happened, so did the person who said it to me.

I am so scared he will do it to me, that there were points in the day where I wanted to kill myself.

What do I do to make sure something is actually done about his threats and so that he doesn't follow through with his threats??
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby jasmin » Thu Jan 14, 2010 4:07 pm

Crystals, would your parents help? Have you seen this person a lot since and have they told you anything else? You did the right thing by telling the police, now this person knows that they'd get in trouble if anything bad happened to you.
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby Myers » Thu Jan 14, 2010 4:30 pm

Make friends with the mob.
I'll try to get it set up. Won't make any promises though.
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby SmileXx » Thu Jan 14, 2010 4:39 pm

I'm going to second making friends with the mob...

Or, you can do what I did and learn to fight.
It seems like an illogical idea, but if you can't defend yourself, no one else will.

You can also issue a report to an actual police department.
It won't prevent the event, but in the event he does assault you, he'll be arrested much more quickly.

But... I'd just learn to fight. It's not that hard and you'd be amazed how terribly fun it can be with the right motivation.
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby Myers » Thu Jan 14, 2010 4:48 pm

SmileXx wrote:but if you can't defend yourself, no one else will.


Unless you pay them enough.
I'll try to get it set up. Won't make any promises though.
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby SmileXx » Thu Jan 14, 2010 5:02 pm

Myers wrote:
SmileXx wrote:but if you can't defend yourself, no one else will.


Unless you pay them enough.


Well aren't you snarky? I like it.
Why take payment to defend someone when you can take payment and beat them down as well?
That's my view of it...
And how I live my life. Lol.
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby Shattered_Crystals » Thu Jan 14, 2010 9:50 pm

Myers wrote:Make friends with the mob.


Thanks, for the advice.
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby Shattered_Crystals » Thu Jan 14, 2010 9:51 pm

SmileXx wrote:I'm going to second making friends with the mob...

Or, you can do what I did and learn to fight.
It seems like an illogical idea, but if you can't defend yourself, no one else will.

You can also issue a report to an actual police department.
It won't prevent the event, but in the event he does assault you, he'll be arrested much more quickly.

But... I'd just learn to fight. It's not that hard and you'd be amazed how terribly fun it can be with the right motivation.


I can get better at fighting if I try. And fighting can be fun if I don't get hurt too badly.
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby SmileXx » Thu Jan 14, 2010 9:57 pm

Shattered_Crystals wrote:
SmileXx wrote:I'm going to second making friends with the mob...

Or, you can do what I did and learn to fight.
It seems like an illogical idea, but if you can't defend yourself, no one else will.

You can also issue a report to an actual police department.
It won't prevent the event, but in the event he does assault you, he'll be arrested much more quickly.

But... I'd just learn to fight. It's not that hard and you'd be amazed how terribly fun it can be with the right motivation.


I can get better at fighting if I try. And fighting can be fun if I don't get hurt too badly.


If you learn to fight well, you won't get hurt. Think about it that way.
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Re: Advice, for physical abuse threats!!!

Postby Shattered_Crystals » Thu Jan 14, 2010 10:51 pm

jasmin wrote:Cry[code]stals, would your parents help? Have you seen this person a lot since and have they told you anything else? You did the right thing by telling the police, now this person knows that they'd get in trouble if anything bad happened to you.

I told my mother about it, I text messaged what the incident was the day it happened she didn't do much about it.

Now, that kid that threatened me is telling the authorities, that he'll "watch out for me", and make sure no one is making fun of me, and if they do, that he'll reprimand anyone who makes fun of me, I don't know weather to believe it or not, though.

My parents they didn't help.

Have you seen this person a lot since and have they told you anything else?

I see him a lot on the bus he has told me other things.
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