Hello,
My wife was physically, emotionally, verbally, and sexually abusive to me. I just took it until it started affecting me in ways that I didn't want it to. I started standing up for myself and her behaviors got worse. She had started talking about getting life insurance for the family and had placed a toothpick in my food to try to throw me off balance. It took my second time going to the the county court to file for divorce for her to stop in February. In the middle of April I wanted to go to church somewhere and she said that she would divorce me because she can't handle that. In the meantime I learned to enforce my boundaries with her and to start recognizing the smaller abuses she attempted toward me.
Now she isn't like that except maybe a little emotionally abusive. I've started to show gestures of love toward her and she seems happy. However, I will never forget how she acted toward me when the kids were around. She still won't go to a psychologist, talk to people she's isolated, and won't talk about her past. I think she's just hiding and is not dealing with her issues.
What I want to know is if she will get violent again?