I have been the victim of physical, verbal and emotional abuse since 2010. The thing is I cannot prove it. My wife even says I'm the one that abused her and people tend to believe her. Whenever abuse is mentioned it's usually the man who abuses the woman. I don't agree but as mentioned before it's hard to prove.
The only thing I have is text messages she has sent me. They are sometimes abusive.
I was wondering if there is someone whom I could show a couple of messages to and if it were possible to determine if the sender is abusive or not?