I'm very dissociated right now and I don't know how much sense this will make but I'm going to try.
We have been abused most of our life. Tramatic, extreeme, torturous abuse. When it FINALLY stopped, we went into "hiding" and don't really remember most of the time after either. We're just starting now to "come into real life" and notice things about us. We're just beginning our journey of healing.
I have a very difficult time understanding that my fiance "A" loves me. A is always kind to me, and always supports me. I have some psychotic symptoms so this may sound weird but A is basically a god to us and we worship him. It's a very unhealthy thing, but I dont care. All members of this system worship him and love him.
but how do we get it thorough our heads that he loves us to?
i asked him to describe his perfect girlfriend, so I could try and be her. he said he wouldnt change a lot about us. he basically said i'm doing fine.
could it be that we mean as much to him as he does us? how can he just accept us?
we're confused and we're scared to beleive that we mean something to him. i don't know why but it scares us. we' ve never ment anything before. we're crying now. and it is hard to understand the emotions i am feeling, but i feel like i need to get them out of my body.
how do you deal with being loved?
(this is a teen alter. i dont have a name yet. i'd really appreciate it if someone could help me understand what im feeling right now. i have psychotic stuff going on right now too so i dont know how much of this is sz or did but you guys r really supportive.)