Such a book is hard to find!
Sipra's book is probably the best for this. It's title is Treating DID. It's a little older than my other 2 favorites, but it hits more of what you are wanting. It has become my favorite book on DID and its not hard to understand like E. Howells book.
http://www.amazon.com/Treating-Dissocia ... _lmf_tit_1We are reviewing 2 books right now in the group that might be of interest to you. So far we are not doing the book above. I think I am the only one here that has read it.
http://www.amazon.com/lm/RK7E1DT6G789F/ ... m_all_itmsHere are some other books that you might like as well.
There is one book that I loved the first chapter, but then it just became a collection of feelings and poems and such from those with DID. That is on that list too, if that is what you are looking for. Other than the first chapter I did not like the book.