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Moving in with an SO Trigger Warning

Postby ColouredLeaves » Wed Feb 22, 2017 5:32 am

Trigger warning. Talk of (lack of) s*x






This is amazing. Our SO asked us to move in with him tonight. C said yes before checking with us but when she did we all gave our consent. The big thing for some of us is this is an as*xual relationship and when C and he were discussing moving in, it was agreed that it would stay that way. I (Heather) identify as as*xual, Terrin doesn't like to be touched and other issues. The fact that we found such an amazing partnership without having to "pay for it" with s*x just blows my mind. C, as a host who is younger than the body, is worried about telling the parents but I say for g*dsake we are an adult. This is our life. And if we all agree, that should be enough.
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C, 28, f
Heather, 44, gender neutral
Heather Black, 44, gender neutral
Sarey, 8, f
Blue Sarey, 4, f
Terrin, 26, f
Helen, f
Silence, 16, f
Victoria, f
Esau, 12, m
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Re: Moving in with an SO Trigger Warning

Postby IainEtc » Wed Feb 22, 2017 7:23 pm

Hi,

Sounds like good thing. Relationships are hard and the s*x stuff just makes the whole thing a lot more complicated. You don't have to tell your parents when you're an adult. Took me a while to learn that but I didn't want to tell them anyway so it sort of works.

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which one do they mean?
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