***trigger warnings: sex, abuse, alcohol, suicide, self harm (none are described in detail but they are mentioned)***
Bambi isn't a new alter but she's new to me. She's the only one with whom I have no communication with and is incredibly good at pretending to be me, Shadow and Jay (because we're out the most I guess).
My T thinks that Bambi is a protector but I don't know if I agree. I know that Bambi took the worst of the 'bad stuff' as she puts it and that she's frozen at age 7 with the emotional range of a 7 year old but her actions made me think she was a lot older. She's reckless and suicidal, often forgetting that she shares a body so any harm she does to herself is also done to us. She will drink excessively and spend hours crying or screaming at herself and hitting/otherwise hurting the body.
She's been described to me as a sociopath but I'm not sure this is true. She manipulates people into liking her and then is incredibly cruel to them if they show any indication of leaving her. She's frequently tried to sleep with strangers, friends (basically anyone) and, as mentioned above, doesn't realise that she shares a body. BUT she's apparently said on numerous occasions that the only way she can stop flashbacks is to hurt herself or get drunk. She also thinks that the only thing she's good for is sex which is why she tries to sleep around.
I don't know what to do. I'm tired of switching in to find the body badly hurt/drunk/barely clothed. Several times one of us had switched in as Bambi was about to kill us. It's gotten to the point where if we are walking over a bridge we have to be physically restrained to stop Bambi throwing us off. I'm scared. The others are scared. We've no idea what to do.
Please help
- Jorgie (host)