Sam, your answer had a big impact on me.
riverside wrote:You are your partners outside protector and part of your job is to communicate, openly, no matter how hard the subject matter is to tell. She needs to be able to rely on you to be her true protector, her rock. She needs you to be the parent to her littles that they never had-
What you wrote here, is so true. Thanks for writing it man.
I also liked very much what River comment, write what other parts of her tell you and whenever she feels like reading it, she will. I heard a talk of a therapist that also emphasized this. He said, that sometimes some parts tell him not to tell other parts, but he answers that he cannot do it, because he needs to contribute to communication within the system. However, before communication, he works on safety and trust first.
Here is his talk:
Therapeutic Approach needed for working with DID - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5T2CBkqy6QY
7:23 - Safety first
10:56 - Telling all within the system, letting every part talk, process and heal.
And here is another talk by him as well:
Working Within Outpatient Services - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfqjaluixog
Here is the page where I found those talks:
http://www.dissociation.co.uk/
I believe he is Remy Aquarone
Hope it works the best for you two.
Sea
-- Wed Mar 19, 2014 9:40 pm --
PS: It's awesome that last part that River mentions:
"We also have our own journal where all our alters write, we can look back when ever and find out if we want. If not we can't actually read!"