by AliasForAFew » Sun Mar 17, 2013 3:39 am
Thank you, Leslie, for being able to see things the way you do.
Logan, what you are saying simply isn't fair. Everyone does what they do for a reason and everyone is there for a reason. Perhaps everyone is safe now and away from the trauma but each part is still needed to hold the memories they do until the time they are able to share their experiences and integrate with the best fit.
Denial is a defense mechanism and was needed at some point to maintain some semblance of normalcy. I am sure we have such parts or fragments around here. While their job is no longer needed it is up to myself and others to let them know that so that they may expand their minds to see the truth. As it is also your job and Leslie's job and (should you have one) your T's job to do the same.
Lori sounds a bit like our Jacob. I am sure Lori has plenty of reason to do the things she does. Though it may not make much sense to you, her reasoning, it makes perfect sense to Lori and that is to be respected. Again, Lori needs to be taught different outlets for her impulses or what have you but that is up to you and Leslie and such to show the compassion and understanding Lori needs to be able to do this.
I could keep going on and on but then this post shall become far more long-winded than it ought to be.
Long story short, there are others there with you and they aren't just going away because you want them to. You all have learning and healing that must be done and each of you is to be treated with respect, understanding, and compassion. Of course , none of this is easy but it must be done.
All the best,
Vernadael Teiryn
Oy, Logan! What kind of a bastard are you? Why the hell are you needed, huh? To be someWhoawhoawhoa hey man, cool it. Everyone's got their $#%^. Don't make me hug you, man.
Into every life a little rain must fall (no problem, be cool)