Your brain is not damaged.
What it sounds like is you haven't found any methods that have worked for you and that's what's most frustrating. I'm sure it makes you feel hopeless and, because I have depression myself, I understand how much worse that makes you feel.
I don't even work and I lose myself in Video games all day. Still working on Bloodborne
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You
can help yourself. Doctors aren't saints, half of them have their heads so full of air they don't even know what they're doing. But there are some good ones out there. There are some good therapists out there too. And sometimes, just
sometimes there's a medication out there that might work. I personally choose not to be on them for that very reason: they make you feel like a zombie. All the life and emotions that make up life are gone. I'd rather be depressed than feel that way and that's just my choice.
You don't have to live like this forever if you don't want to. And if you can somehow squeeze at least a quarter of that thought into your mind every morning and every evening, it might just change your perspective on things a little. Thoughts are very powerful, as I'm sure you know. We all know how powerful negative thoughts are, at least.
Positive thoughts are too. Even if you don't believe them an ounce, even if you feel stupid for saying them to yourself, even if the negative half of you rejects them and laughs at you for doing it, do it anyway. Instead of saying you can't help yourself, say you can. Because you can. I can help myself too. It's a struggle every day and maybe for a few days or weeks I won't get out of bed and I won't shower and maybe I won't eat. Maybe when my anxiety is high I won't get out and spend the next six months agoraphobic.
But then maybe some days I won't. Maybe some days I'll get out of bed and I manage to do things. Maybe I manage to use the techniques i've learned from my psychologist to help manage my anxiety out in public and maybe when my brain is rambling off every negative thought in the world, I can find at least one positive on and hold onto it for dear life.
It's all about what you want. Always. Screw the doctors; the doctors aren't you, they don't know what's really going on. Their medication doesn't know jack $#%^. Only you do.
Don't give up on life. It's got so much to offer you and you have so much to offer it.
Something will eventually work for you. It might take a few more years even, but something will work. I wish you well and good luck.
I like living in the world in my head because I'm in charge half the time.