I printed this thread out yesterday and wrote some encouraging notes on the last page, then I put it in my mother's mailbox (since she wasn't home).
I wrote that I felt she needed some guidance/help getting through what's going on in her life right now, and I'm not calling her crazy but I thought she should at least talk to a doctor and I would go with her if she wanted. I told her I loved her and asked if she'd just talk to someone for me.
I didn't want her to call me right after she found it/read it because I knew she'd be upset and once she takes a little while to process something in her mind she usually calms down and starts to think logically again, so I unplugged my phone for all of last night. I needed the rest anyway...I'm stressed at work also and haven't been sleeping well lately.
So anyway, I noticed this morning that there was a voicemail waiting and it was her. She sounded pretty annoyed so I knew that she had seen the papers I left her, but I waited until I was at work to call her.
For the first 10 minutes of the call she sounded normal and was telling me about her day yesterday and her plans for today...so I started to worry that maybe she didn't see the papers in her mailbox (god, what if the mailman saw them when he came by...) so I asked her if she had gotten them. She said she had and said thanks but I'm fine and don't need to see a doctor. *sigh*
The next 20 mins of the call was her telling me that since she was no longer having panic attacks, has been off that medication for over a month now, and went to sleep last night without taking any pills that she's fine and doesn't need me to worry about her.
Yet, yesterday she had the locks changed on her house for the second time in a month. She said she also let the police know that her neighbours are trying to cause trouble (I know one of them actually is - the slimeball) and to keep an eye on them for her.
She still thinks people are trying to control her life by various means and that she's a famous movie star, but she doesn't need me to worry about her.