by still_alive » Fri Feb 27, 2015 4:09 am
Hi everyone, im brand new to these forums....just gonna jump right into it though
basically, i relapsed last night after something like 3 years of being cut-free...so that was when i was probably 19 or so, im 22 now
I thought i had learned to control myself after all this time, but as all of you must know, when the moment comes, its like my free-will takes a back seat and impulse takes over until i've gotten "it" all out. The setting was at a friends house, but to be honest we're more than friends. We had been "with" each other for almost 2 years, but still haven't put that label on it. Things between us have been weird these passed couple weeks and i knew exactly what the issue was. A few weeks back, she called me up saying how i was the only one she wanted, and basically the whole nine-yards about where we were going and what i wanted from her. I freaked out, as i am terrified of my own feelings, even though i felt pretty much the same way...so stupid. I didn't speak to her for about a week and half after that...again, im a complete $#%^ head. Anyway, when i finally did get the guts to speak to her, things were different, she was acting strange and when i tried to kiss her, she would't let me. Im very intuitive and i knew immediately that she had done something that she knew i would not like, but i let it go for a few days in hopes that it would just go back to normal...it didn't.
Which brings me to last night. I went over to her place to watch a movie and after turning away from me when i tried to put my arm around her, and refusing to kiss me, i couldn't take it anymore and just initiated the conversation. My suspicions were dead on...she had been sleeping with someone else since a couple weeks back when i freaked out after she told me all that stuff and i didn't talk to her for that week and a half, someone i knew, someone i considered a friend. My reaction was something i had not even expected from myself...my world was turned upside down, and my heart was broken. She saw immediately how hurt i was and started bawling her eyes out and apologizing, but the damage was done. I walked outside and stayed out there for a good while, trying to make sense of my reality and what this meant for me. When i finally went back inside, she was still crying...but it got worse. I had decided to forgive her and just move on like it hadn't happened, but she said that everything was different now and that her feelings for this dude were stronger than she realized. It came down to a choice between me or him, and she said that she did not know what to do, this killed me even more.
At this point it was almost 3 am, and i don't have a car, so i couldn't just drive home...i was stuck there. I tried to sleep, but it was impossible, the anger, sadness, and all of the other emotions were keeping me wide awake. After a while, she went to use the bathroom, and that was the moment. I reacted without thinking as soon as she left the room and went straight to her desk where i saw a pair of scissors. I suddenly found myself *mod edit-cutting* my upper thigh, *mod edit- numbers removed*. It felt amazing. I immediately jumped right back into the bed because i heard her coming back.
The funny thing is, I slept like a baby after that.
So that was last night, and i am now all dressed up to go meet her at the bar for her co-workers birthday party. I don't know whats going to happen, since she still hasn't made her choice yet. Wish me luck tonight guys.
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lilyfairy on Fri Feb 27, 2015 11:10 am, edited 1 time in total.
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