Hi Everyone,
I have been practicing CBT for the last 10 years – with the help of several books from the great David Burns.
In the last couple of years I’ve been struggling with putting the lie to several thoughts which I just can’t seem to answer to.
The main thought that is troubling me is: “I am wasting my life in my job". This thought has been causing me a lot of pain and suffering.
The thing is, I hate my job. I am trying to look for a better one for myself, but the fact is, I still feel like I’m wasting my life while I am still working at it.
I tried many techniques: examine the evidence, feared phantasy technique, cost/benefit analysis and many more, but nothing helps.
Can someone here help me with this? Perhaps you have an idea to how I can disprove it?
Is it true that I’m wasting my life in my work (finding a job which I would like might take a lot of time, so I prefer not to suffer so much meanwhile…) ?
Thanks