I can't seem to stop snapping at people lately. anything I say the slightest little thing, even in a text, that came from a place of anything other than perfectly fine, the people important to me are picking up on it and, of course, taking offense/being hurt/etc. why is it so hard for me to just consistently be nice/kind/considerate of the people that mean the most to me? it's like the more I care about them, the ruder I am to them. it makes me feel like such an awful person and I don't want my relationships to crumble just because I can't stop being a bitch. how do I take control of this?