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My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby crimsonandclover » Thu Dec 29, 2011 3:49 pm

MAN! it is weird to be on this side of things. Oh maybe I haven't been in this relationships stage for a while.

I was in the " I figured out how to turn things on my BPD " stage with my ex for like 9 months until he stopped talking so I was use to that. Forgot how the start with us is.

We are the ones untrusted first. Than I don't trust them. Must be the mirroring.

Interesting though. Now I can see why my ex ran for the hills in a way! Because my god is my boyfriend ######6 annyoing!

It's been a long time since I've been the untrusted one. Icky phase this is. It usually goes this way though.

There is a pattern usually.


He accused me of being a " sweet talker " I almost punched him in the face.

Did I mention this guy makes his knuckles bleed when he is mad and broke thru my phone and txted my brother?

He's been used and abused understandable but I think I may have out grown this type. Not feeling turned on like usually by it.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby wineaux » Thu Dec 29, 2011 4:43 pm

sounds like he might suck the life out of you and you don't need any more of those shiitake mushrooms.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby MissAli » Thu Dec 29, 2011 6:08 pm

Crimson, darling, forgive me please - but isn't this the guy you were dating but "didn't really care about" when you were trying to get back with your ex? And isn't the ex the one that made you go home from his house at 1AM and kicked you out of the car

I'm just wondering... because if this guy has any inkling of this going on, why would he trust you, sweetheart?

:0) I still love you!

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby crimsonandclover » Thu Dec 29, 2011 7:24 pm

Yes he is!

And guess what guys? I'm making him take me to my ex's to pick some of my stuff up today LMAO

I'll let you know how this goes.. My therapist says JUST GET YOUR STUFF :P
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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby MissAli » Thu Dec 29, 2011 8:00 pm

Crimson, this is hysterical.


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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby cboxpalace » Thu Dec 29, 2011 8:10 pm

My head is spinning, can't keep up!! :D


I do love this though...
He accused me of being a " sweet talker " I almost punched him in the face.


where would we be without you... ;)
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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby MissAli » Fri Dec 30, 2011 2:56 pm

Box!!! Where have you been? I haven't been on much this week, but I wanted to say hi!!!

Crimson, you gotta update us on this situation... this is BIG entertainment :0).

Did you get your stuff back?

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby crimsonandclover » Fri Dec 30, 2011 8:53 pm

He still hates me :(

He was minplutive saying he was sad and stuff we hugged a bit but when I went in from a kiss he pushed me away. I got so ######6 pissed off he didn't want to ###$ me. So I asked him if he wanted to meet my boyfriend because I was upset. He said maybe another time than speed off and I asked if he was mad and he said no and he took off like that cause he had to get to work. Whatever. He is back to ignoring me again :evil:

I got most of my things though accept for the bed, fridge, tv. He said I could get them another time.

I was hoping something more exciting would happen. Like he'd tell me he still wants me. I hate how bad I want a mirror not a person. So I can feel ok. I need to get over that narc crap.

Cause I feel like $#%^ now and I just started my period.

My boyfriend annoys me and I should probably just break up with him when I move.

No one seems to make me happy I should probably just be alone. :evil:
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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby Twistedmister » Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:10 am

No one seems to make me happy I should probably just be alone



It would be more humane for whoever was unlucky enough to end up with someone like you. Rather noble actually.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Trust Me

Postby ajr8 » Sat Dec 31, 2011 2:40 pm

You're almost making me empathize with other men. :evil: Thank you so much...
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