**TRIGGERING** A Non in need of help

Title of thread edited by FrayedEndOfSanity

Let me tell you the uncovered truth about borderlines. Stop reading websites about their illness, stop wasting your precious
life and energy on them. THEY DON'T CARE AND NEVER WILL. They will break your heart time and time again. They will make you hurt them and then you will feel sorry for that. They will make you want to end your life. They will make you want to kill them and after that you will cry and feel sorry for that too. You will have your every dream crushed. And they will never ever wake up for real to see what they have done because if they did they would kill themselves that very instant. Falling in love with a borderline is the worst thing that can happen to you. I wouldn't wish that to my worse enemy. There are no words enough to describe the pain and heartbreak a borderline will cause you. Run away, far away from any borderline. Don't belive a word from them. Don't say nobody told you. They suck the real value and worth of the world and give illusions in exchange. Don't belive borderline success stories written online, or you will pay with your heart, soul, sanity and money for the first six months of fake heaven. They are the closest thing to evil personified i can think of. Even if the very unlikely case a borderline will take enough therapy you will be too worn down to enjoy life anymore, and you will never know if some day they won't run away from you with their new "soulmate'. Watch the movie case 39 and think about that little girl as a borderline. That is bpd experience. Don't feel sorry for them. They will take that and use it against you. If they would be capable of being sorry for you they would live you the hell alone. They are the epitome of regress, failure, pain, self-distuction and everything evil i can think of. Run the hell away from them and when you miss them remember that if they were next to you right now you wouldn't be able to do whatever you were doing without being afraid.Or remember THEIR EVIL HIDEOUS COLD facial expression when they were raging. When I first broke up with my bpd boyfriend i didn't said a word to him for one whole week. And than he somehow managed to make me see him. He was looking completely diffrent. I could barely recognize him after only one week. Skinny, weak, his voice was diffrent. I swear to GOD, in THREE HOURS HE WAS BACK TO BEING THE HANDSOME, CHARMING man he was before the break-up. He litterally sucked the energy and strenght from me. I am so terrified I don't want to ever see or hear a word from him again. God help him.

Wow. Just... wow.

Is there any way to delete this topic, mods?

OP, go to the Nons Support thread. Or, preferably, GTFO of the forum.

I don't know how to reply to this without getting permanently banned, so I'm stopping there.

You want this topic erased because you can't stand the truth. TYPICAL FOR A BORDERLINE.

Oh, cry me a goddamn river and drown in it.

By the way i think it would not be fair if you erase this thread. as a person who loved to death a bpd male, and tried EVERYTHING to make it work, i have the right to an oppinion here.

That's a pretty damn extreme and nasty barrage of feelings...no, misunderstandings about us with BPD !!
Much of it untrue. Those of us with BPD have endured a life of suffering. It is a serious disorder-illness- that causes relentless inner conflict for which, even with meds and therapy, brings no real relief. It's absurd what you've said. Your views are hurtful and totally untrue! You know NOTHING of BPD !! That's a terrible post !

non_elizabeth wrote:By the way i think it would not be fair if you erase this thread. as a person who loved to death a bpd male, and tried EVERYTHING to make it work, i have the right to an oppinion here.

It's less opinion and more spamming a SUPPORT forum with garbage. There's a NON support thread, and like I've said, go post there if you really feel the need to bash US for your ex's behavior.

Is there anyone here who would fell sorry for me? Is there any bpd person here who would say something like "hey, i'm so sorry that you have been thru this, but you don't have to generalise like that, not every bpd is the same" ..?????
No, you are only sorry for yourselves. Which validates once again my feelings for pbds.

non_elizabeth wrote:Is there anyone here who would fell sorry for me? Is there any bpd person here who would say something like "hey, i'm so sorry that you have been thru this, but you don't have to generalise like that, not every bpd is the same" ..?????
No, you are only sorry for yourselves. Which validates once again my feelings for pbds.

You want pity? You want people feeling sorry for the poor you? I truly, from the bottom of my heart, pity you. Happy?


Edit: Yeah, I'm getting yelled at by the mods for this later aren't I...

non_elizabeth wrote:Is there anyone here who would fell sorry for me? Is there any bpd person here who would say something like "hey, i'm so sorry that you have been thru this, but you don't have to generalise like that, not every bpd is the same" ..?????
No, you are only sorry for yourselves. Which validates once again my feelings for pbds.

Hey hey hey...my girlfriend is bpd and she is NOTHING like that. SOOO..I'm gonna go with "No, no one feels sorry for you, GTFO of this forum if you're just going to bash people with bpd when you know nothing about what they go through. Attention whore much?"

Pairou wrote:Oh, cry me a goddamn river and drown in it.

Well said, baby.