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Re: how can some people be so.. FORGIVING?

Postby triplemoon18 » Wed Jan 11, 2017 5:42 pm

We are all supposed to learn forgiveness because all people are human and make mistakes - I usually keep people around as long as the bad is outweighed by the good. No one is perfect.

But my mother, despite realizing that she probably has BPD and it should excuse her behaviour a bit - I will NEVER forgive her and I hope to hell I don't have to come back in another life with her. I don't think I will have to though because she didn't learn much about herself in this life - just how to find fault and blame others for her problems and then wonder why no one can stand to be around her! My father, I think since he apologized recently and knows he wasn't the best dad, well I think I am working on forgiving him. I know he was a victim of my mother too and he also had a horrid mother too.
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Re: how can some people be so.. FORGIVING?

Postby fdarkmatter » Thu Jan 12, 2017 3:53 pm

i am very forgiving but at the same time i tend to hold grudge against certain people, strange huh?
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Re: how can some people be so.. FORGIVING?

Postby madjoe » Thu Jan 12, 2017 6:56 pm

they dont forgive
they just lowering expectations
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