all judgment is a fear of the self and a justification of the self(own rules)
I disagree. Certainly some judgement is projection in this sense. However, I have abandoned all but the most pervasive of this kind of judgmental behavior. I rarely impose my judgements on other people. With me, they can do whatever they like with impunity unless they initiate force: violence, theft, fraud. That is for my judgements. I do reserve the "right" to judge people by their own standards. I eventually hope to stop all judgmental tendencies, but I haven't arrived there yet.
For instance, a chick wildly flips out on me interrupting her too much. Okay. I will make a note of that in two ways. There is a new rule, I don't interrupt her. And another equally important new rule, she had best not interrupt me. Now, I will still be pretty laid back about interruption, but let's say she did it to the extent that justified her flip out.
Batten down the hatches; the
tempest is begun.
<TW>Or, let's say someone gossips about someone who became pregnant without the means to support a baby, saying, "That stupid whore shouldn't have opened her legs if she is incapable of caring for a child." If she does the same I will tear her down with word for word quotes of what she said about the other chick. Then I will also tear her down for hypocrisy.</TW>
I don't think this is projection, but I accept that it
might be a projection of my feelings toward my own inconsistencies. Even so, judgement is still not universally projection. It is when when you decide upon an opinion of something. It isn't always about self. I judge people as trustworthy, strong or genuine. I also judge people as willfully ignorant, stupid or a follower.
I judge this website as including too many unnecessary browser side scripts (especially ones that report back cookies to give information about your crazy problems to Facebook, Twitter and Google so their ads will better target you), too public given the subject matter and having too high a moderator turn-over rate in recent years. What am I projecting there? I also judge it as having supportive people and making an impact on my life. What fear does that indicate?
"You're only given a little spark of madness.
You mustn`t lose it"
-Robin Williams