Suicide Helpline Numberswww.befrienders.org (if anyone is feeling suicidal, just go to this website and they have links for a helpline number in your country..they have a list of helpline numbers for many countries all over the world)
Samaritans:
http://www.samaritans.org/ They have a phone, letter and email service and the phone operators are trained specifically in dealing with people in emotional distress.
Safety Plan-for anyone thinking of/planning suicide
http://www.studentsagainstdepression.or ... odule1.pdfThe website "StudentsAgainstDepression" is specifically catered to depression however I think some of the coping skills would help borderlines. There are some workbooks where you just fill them in and they're very good. There is some information on how to deal with self-harm too.
http://www.studentsagainstdepression.or ... -own-life/Women's Aidhttp://www.womensaid.org.uk/ (for anyone in an abusive relationship)
BPD-Understanding itThis explains the borderline mindset well:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_--SCmZ9FcThere's a very good radio discussion on BPD and the link is on this website:
http://www.frankyeomans.com/publications.php (both the borderline mindset and this link are about TFP-Transference Focused Psychotherapy, which is a psychodynamic approach deliberately tailored to meet the needs of borderlines)
Healing From BPD
http://www.my-borderline-personality-disorder.com/This is a website by a female BPD sufferer who is using DBT skills to overcome it. It really helped me increase my understanding of BPD.
Depression and Anxiety"The Feeling Good Handbook" by David D. Burns. It's a great book for dealing with Axis I disorders depression and anxiety, which are often comorbid with BPD.
http://www.amazon.com/Feeling-Good-Hand ... d+handbook"Mind over Mood: Change How You Feel By Changing How You Think" by Dennis Greenburger and Christine Padesky
http://www.amazon.com/Mind-Over-Mood-Ch ... pd_sim_b_7Coping SkillsCentre for Clinical Interventions-they have workbooks on a number of areas which may affect borderlines like anxiety, depression, perfectionism, an assertiveness course etc.
The "distress tolerance" course is basically DBT so it'd be particularly helpful for BPD sufferers
http://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/resources/consumers.cfm