That's exactly it. I want to keep
reading what you said and think
about it. I really appreciate your
It's also I want to be liked and
not absndoned so I can be a
yes person at times. So it's not
only deservability. I do realize
that my boundaries are about me.
Im glad you brought that up. I think I
have some misplaced anger.
I get it
Anyways, when I am
centered and confident I can
set my boundaries. I do know what
it's like to be out of the Borderline
zone. To know who I am. And it will
be easier to set boundaries as I strengthen
-- Fri Oct 11, 2013 1:18 am --
I read your response again . Yes you
re right. By not setting them I am
projecting unworthiness .
I do think I also avoid boundaries cuz
I want people to like me so I avoid
confrontation . But I see that also
backfires. How can someone trust a yes
And then I will see what I am doing snd
I will go overboard in asserting myself.
Instead of just voicing my truth to begin with.
If this isn't a manifestation of self sabotage
I don't know what is !!! Lol
"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."
"We have to face the pain we have been running from. In fact, we need to learn
how to rest in it and let its searing power transform us. "