I already posted about this topic a while back in the factitious disorder forum, having no idea where this behavior comes from: http://www.psychforums.com/factitious-disorder/topic114005.html
Since then I have thought a little more about it, and I want to ask you guys whether anyone has ever come across this feeling. I'll specify a little better what it is about:
In my last post, I described it more as wanting bad things to happen so I'll get attention. I traced that back to the possibility that at some point something bad happened to me and I couldn't tell anyone so I'm still looking for consolation that isn't coming because nothing bad happens to me.
That's not what I feel these days though.
Now it's more like, having a loving boyfriend but still feeling like he doesn't love you when he's reading something on the laptop. It's like feeling that people who love you have to constantly show you their love, but to you it's never enough because you seem to suck up that love and attention so much that it seems like nothing. It doesn't feel like that all the time, most of the time I know that my boyfriend loves me a lot and that's enough for me (he does show me his love and affection a lot, it's not like he's really acting cold towards me or anything.) Also, it's not like in those moments I'm really afraid that he'd leave me. I know he won't leave me, but I feel the extreme need for love and affection. It feels like I'm not important enough to him, like I'm not good enough to deserve his attention (24/7, which is impossible anyways.)
I hoped that maybe someone with BPD might experience something similar.