Hello out there I'm hoping that someone has any suggestions to a problem that I have. I had ended a relationship that I thought was going to be good for all involved but it turned out to be something else. Something that you don't hear people talk about or people whisper it and do nothing about it. I tried to do something about it but failed. Here is my problem: I was living with someone whom I thought loved me and my 2 kids but in the end no one really matters even his 2 daughters. Only he matters to himself. You see I had always suspected that something wasn't right between him and his daughters. There were odd things like the way he would hold them and he would say every daughter wants to marry their father. How he would go in their bedroom and stay in there for a while. There are other things but this will be too long. This has been very hard for me to understand. I am a woman who works in the Sheriffs Office and is in uniform. I take my job very seriously and try to do the right things. He too works in the Sheriffs Office and is a Sergeant. I saw him sexually abuse his 15 year old daughter and my son saw this as well. Not a day doesn't go by without me seeing these visions that at the time seem surreal but were real. I went to the local Police Department. They looked into it but the daughter will not talk. Is there anything I can do to stop this very sad situation. I am carrying around a lot of guilt. I need some suggestions if anyone can understand me.

Please post again in child-abuse/ sparklybutterfly. I don't know if anyone here will be able to help. But hopefully they will. Or at least support you through this. We don't use blogs for conversations very much. Because there's no way to "follow" any blog except your own. Whereas posts are always found under "View your posts." I hope this makes sense.