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Emotions Anonymous: 12 Steps? No! by Remis Fargo on Fri Nov 25, 2011 2:35 pm
The 12 steps are summarized by the American Psychological Association as follows:

1. admitting that one cannot control one's addiction or compulsion;
2. recognizing a higher power that can give strength;
3. examining past errors with the help of a sponsor (experienced member);
4. making amends for these errors;
5. learning to live a new life with a new code of behavior;
6. helping others who suffer from the same addictions or compulsions.

1. I admit that I have problems. I admit that I am weak and need help to help myself. That's just human. I am responsible for my actions. I am a clean amphetamine junkie. Emotions are not addictions. Again: emotions are just human. They are not supposed to be controlled.
"I can not control my emotions" So what? I admit my emotions do not fit to an adult here and now. And I am going to express them, validate them and take them where they belong.

2. A higher power, like Mom and Dad? Like the weather? Like my boss? Religion is the way society worships itself. (who said that? I forgot... ah, here: Durkheim! Thanks, Emile). A higher power can be benevolent. Or even not!

3. Oh, great, welcome to the guilt and remorse train! Enpowerment is on another track... Anyway, I know about my past faults. Skip.

4. Ok with it. Done so. And btw, I forgive you too. Don't call me late at night because you feel bad about what you have done to me. Just stay out of my sight as long as you know no other way but treat me as a prostitute.

5. Yes. Ok.

6. It is good to ask for help. It is good to offer help. Conditions are negotiable matter...

So. What exactly are you doing? You hide your feelings all day. You come here to tell the truth once per week. You do the helpless prayer to cover that you want to go on and on with this compensation game.

But what I like are the sharing rules: no inquiry, no evaluation, no advice. Greet, listen, thank.

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24.04.15; post two - social anxiety thoughts. by miss_anonymous on Mon Apr 27, 2015 11:54 am
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24.04.15; post one - my story. by miss_anonymous on Mon Apr 27, 2015 10:06 am
My parents have always encouraged to me to do well in school. They told me that it is important to get good grades and to get a good job, and that is all they spoke about to me. They thought that getting...

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Still going strong by Charlton12 on Mon Apr 27, 2015 9:43 am
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How society treats Pedophiles by HowardCL on Mon Apr 27, 2015 4:40 am
I used to get so bent out of shape by the way society treats Pedophiles like myself but then I started to get a strong feelings about who I am and what I will be until the day that they put me 6 feet under...

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a year on and worse by jody on Sun Apr 26, 2015 8:06 pm
ive been plodding on but my heart is not in it. i have nobody and dont want anybody. i keep thinking things are ok but they arent.i dont like the world,ive never fitted in. i remember why i was taking...

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Re: lost.. by Ada on Mon Apr 27, 2015 6:08 pm
I'm glad you've found the forum, Vinny. You're welcome here. Along with your friends if they'd like to post. [Though perhaps ask them if they wouldn't mind quickly reading through the ...

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Re: Taking the leap by pixi3 on Sun Apr 26, 2015 3:30 pm
Thanx Ada :)

Re: bullying by Ada on Sun Apr 26, 2015 9:30 am
Welcome to the forum. I'm glad you found us. Maybe post again in bullying/ ? These blogs tend to be used...

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Re: felling a bit lost by Ada on Sat Apr 25, 2015 3:03 pm
A lot of people here. In different parts of the forum. Have written about that kind of experience, gwonz. :) ...

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Re: Taking the leap by Ada on Sat Apr 25, 2015 3:00 pm
Welcome to the forum, pixi3 :)

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