Hello... I was drawn to your blog due to a comment you left someone.
I found it to be very encouraging... and so I was drawn here.
I see you have mother issues, as I do, and so I feel I can relate to you.
I have some positive thoughts to share with you, and I hope you will benefit from it.
By trying to remain positive, and not allowing negativity to overtake you, you will survive.
I saw you are struggling to meet and make friends... yet another thing we have in common.
Maybe we can encourage each other to make friends and upbuild ourselves and others...
I would like really that! Hope it appeals to you as well...
By learning to love myself, and by using upbuilding thoughts, I have much to live for...
Always look to encourage others.. through helping them, you are actually helping yourself.
Hey... wish I could say I wrote what's below... I didn't. But I LOVE every word.
Part of recovering from pathology is to build ourselves up from within.
Along with a genuine happiness from introspection, insight and emotional/spiritual growth, comes a humility based upon having had experiences that can be used as tools to help others seeking direction on their own paths to self-discovery.
It is a calm, quiet, PEACEFUL self-reflection that can be shared with others.
The hard part is getting there. It takes work. A lot of work.
I believe that things happen for a reason and that my higher power is trying to teach me something about myself, to pay attention to what I ignore when distracted by external things.
I think what it really means is the ability to sit alone with yourself and with God, COMFORTABLY.
I realize that I need to do a lot more work on creating happiness for myself.
This means more time alone, more time in reflection, more time in therapy and more time spent alone with God.
Pathology has been my biggest and best teacher.
A springboard to the core of self.
A catalyst for a future happiness that is far more meaningful and genuine than any relationship with anyone....
The relationship with myself.