Obviously I'm going to know the answer, it's just I want to hear another persons opinion.
I'm a 16 year old girl and I like fantasizing about things, sometimes it's actually meaningful and sweet, then sometimes it's just dirty sex with this guy I have been dreaming about lately.
I dunno what drives me, but it turns me on so much to be "dominant" over the person, not like "chains and whips" (No, not at ALL) but in a way that the other person can't say "no" to?
Who knows, I'm pretty sure I'm a pervert but I don't really know why or how I became one.
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You're sixteen so you're developing sexual interests and sexual frustration. Everyone is interested in something, you might just be interested in dom-sub play without the tools. I mean it's hard to tell unless you've had that kind of sex. It also might be a desire for power, like a psychological aspect. Like you might feel power deprived in one sense and so in the sexual sense you want that power over men.


You're not a pervert, you're just human. You just learn to accept the thoughts and move on.