There was a norwegian comedian who made a joke many years ago.
I was little when he made the joke but i think it was about a news story where Russians had entered Norwegian boarders under water.
The comedian had dressed up in a Russian costume and invited a "reporter" on the deck of his submarine. The "reporter" asked him why they had crossed the norwegian boarder and the comedian answered " well don`t be silly, we don`t see boarders under water".
This is one of Norway`s most well known sketches, sadly to say that the comedian has passed away now but his sketches live on.
The point to my story is about boarders and what people do when they meet their inner boarder.
The inner boarder is like sub conscience for others, so "under water".
People can`t always see others boarder, which is why we often come into conflicts.
I have sometimes hit my boarder and realized many years later that, that is what i had.
When you hit the boarder i think the outcome can be bad for either you or someone else.
So that is why we have defence, so people can`t cross those boarders.