I am sick of my mothers brain farts which is why i don`t have any contact with her...
She can give me a advice which much later can turn out to be an advice which was given to her from her father, which she didn`t know because the relationship with him was amputated, so i am basically just some sort of a catalyst for her understanding.
She sends me on wild goose chases all the time and none of her so called "advice" is ever up to date, accurate or even well meaning, they are just words mumbled out so she can go and do what is important to her.