For some years ago i was dating a guy named "Roy". He told me that he had been sexually abused by his mother. It was a terrible thing to hear about and felt very alien.
I didn`t really know what to do about it? But we kept our relationship going and were good friends.
I hate insecurities when you feel like you don`t know what to say or do, obviously it was a difficult thing for him to say. Brings out many feelings just to mention it.
What should he do??? Talk or stay silent?
He had a lot of help when he was younger, when i met him he was wonderful, strong and seemed pretty secure in some ways yet insecure in others.
In one way he was really psychologically strong but in another way he could fall into some deep agony too.
Its a heavy burden to bear something like that.
I guess all i want to say is that its no hinder from having friendships, girlfriends etc..
We had a wonderful relationship for as long as we could. Its actually the only relationship i don`t regret having but regret losing.
Its still not clear why we broke up?
He was my leading man.