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| Author: | CrackedGirl [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:29 am ] |
| Blog Subject: | No Revisited |
I was doing some IE in DBT group last night and my friend helped me figure out why I had difficulty saying no. I was abused and the first time I said no did not end well. I did not say it again. Being in a missionary situation made me feel like I was not allowed to say no as I dont want to be selfish as that is a sin. I dont want to make my Mum sad by saying no to her like she was after Dad died. I am just noting this down so I remember - not that I think I am likely to forget tbh. But at least I know where it comes from and that means I can do some work on it. Hope you are all well Hugs Cracked |
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| Author: | Black Widow [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 9:04 am ] |
It is essential to say no, especially to Christians. It is not a sin, but keeping boundaries. No offense intended if you are Christian. I just know they do not like boundaries. |
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