Not sure if I'm doing this right, first time blogger lol. My wife has been diagnosed with adult adhd, bipolar, ptsd and borderline personality disorder. All this was hidden from me for a few years. Didn't show itself until our first born was 1 and a half. First I thought it was just depression about the life changes that occur with a new baby, but then it progressed into much worse. The personalities started changing. And not like you see on tv. I've been struggling with this now for 5 years, it's so hard sometimes but I love her and not ready to quit the fight. Trying to persuade her to get more significant help falls apon deaf ears and usually brings out an evil vindictive personality that is bullet proof. We have 2 great and healthy boys together and I'm trying so desperately to keep this marriage going, I know she loves me but can't let her own emotions out. I found this site hoping someone would be able to give some advice or insite on my issues because it's not only confusing but emotionally exhausting and painful at times. Am I in the right place? The dr.s don't seem to like sharing opinions or anything in that matter with me...