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One last kick in the head before I'm laid off

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Re: One last kick in the head before I'm laid off

Postby Parador » Wed Nov 18, 2009 4:12 pm

twistermind wrote:
Parador wrote:It is possible that the cut to my place could be restored. Lots of people are upset by it. They are cutting it to save money but I have pretty much proven that the cut will not save money. The place is a cafe that takes in over $200,000 a year in revenues and that pays for the cost of running it. So the place is getting cut in December but it could be restored in January. In that case I could be recalled to work in the same place with the same awful bosses. Or I could get a job somewhere with WORSE bosses. I HAVE had worse bosses than this in the past. I remember one time I had a job where they paid minimum wage and the boss yelled at me at LEAST 3 times in a 5 hour shift. I hate working. Think I'll apply for disability. I'll say on the application that I will kill myself if I don't get it.

So you did it the right thing in not accepting the deal. They are the ones who have to prove you made a mistake.
Good luck, my friend.


Not neccessarily. If I fight it I SHOULD win. But people who are right sometimes lose. If I get fired I lose this transfer to the lower paying job. If I fight it and pay my lawyer thousands I MIGHT win in a year or so and win my job back. I know a guy who went through the proccess and it took him about a while year to win his job back.
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Re: One last kick in the head before I'm laid off

Postby Parador » Wed Dec 02, 2009 1:45 am

It's official. I'm a pasta assaulter. I got the paperwork today. I will have a 4 day suspension on my record for threatening a bad employee with a bowl of pasta. They also got me for talking to another employee about her behavior. All I was doing was trying to get him to corroborate the fact that she was late. She shows up late all the time and then just lies and says she's not late. They don't make people punch a clock so it's hard to prove that kind of thing.

I'm going to another job in the same organization. So this is on my record. I'm the bad guy. I'm the hard worker and they tell me work overtime without pay. Then they let the no good lazy people take paid half hour breaks and show up late. Hopefully I will have better supervisors in the department I am moving to.
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Re: One last kick in the head before I'm laid off

Postby twistermind » Wed Dec 02, 2009 2:50 pm

Did you arrive to an agreement with them?
Are you glad with the result?
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Re: One last kick in the head before I'm laid off

Postby Parador » Wed Dec 02, 2009 5:00 pm

No. It's not right that I have a 4 day suspension on my record. I'm going to grieve it. I just outlined my argument to my lawyer. I was the victim of poor management that didn't give any tools or guidance on how to deal with a poor employee.
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Re: One last kick in the head before I'm laid off

Postby Parador » Fri Dec 04, 2009 8:50 pm

The closing party was today. I stopped by at 11 am, but I had to go. I couldn't hold it together seeing my place all cleaned out like that. And I didn't even feel like I belonged there anymore. It was bad. I wanted to see if my computer account had been enabled. It hadn't. I went out and sat in my car crying for an hour. Then I drove for a few hours. Then found a computer.
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Re: One last kick in the head before I'm laid off

Postby twistermind » Fri Dec 04, 2009 9:51 pm

Sorry. What a ###$´ing year!
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