Leroythelost wrote:I am trying to find help and I just had 6 sessions of counselling at uni, but that didn't help much. My councillor said I would need to pay to get diagnosed properly by a professional with mental health rather than a gp and as I don't have my own money right now I guess I have to wait.
I'm sorry to hear that you'd require money to visit a professional. Can your parents be persuaded to give it to you? And I don't know where you live, but is it impossible for you to visit a psychiatrist in your region for free? I'm asking because I had no idea it was possible for myself at first and thought I had to pay. But when I first visited a paid psychologist, he just told me that this is outside of his area of expertise. Actually he did refer me where to go and yes I had a paid evaluation at first, but later I found out that it could be done for free, they just wanted to rip me off. So maybe you can look into it further? Where do people in emergency go in your city? There should be a free place. You know, people with delusions and hallucinations. There should be a ward for them, and around it some kind of medical psychologist who was trained to diagnose both such cases and personality disorders.
Although it's hard to get a diagnosis. In my experience, the best you can count on at first is a general diagnosis, like "personality disorder". To diagnose you very specifically, they'll take a lot of time to avoid a mistake.
That said, problems with people could be social anxiety and social phobia, too. Did you look into those, do they sound familiar? As for avoidant disorder, I think it's most prominent feature is ruined self-image. It's like narcissism, just the other way around.
Do you have problems with studies or other serious problems that interfere with basic functions of life? Like, inability to go to classes because you fear people, inability to leave home?